Time often seems to pass quickly, with birthdays, special occasions, holidays, and milestones coming and going. At some point, it’s important to pause and reflect, appreciating what we have and expressing our gratitude to our parents for everything they have done for us over the years. At Compact Home Lifts, we’re reflecting on how we can maximise our time with them and ensure they remain secure in their home.
One of our common inquiries comes from adult children of older parents seeking advice on the best ways to support their parents at home. Given their familiarity with technology and younger age, they often look for innovative solutions to mobility challenges.
Reversing roles
As we become older and our parents get older too, our relationship with them changes. It’s common for our role to change to include more of a “carer” role. However, if you take the time to prepare your parents’ house for the future, it need not be as difficult as it seems. Ensuring that discreet living aids are prepared for the day when their pace of life will slow. The installation of a home lift will also address any issues that arise from navigating the stairs before they become a major obstacle.
Creating memories
It’s imperative to prioritise parent safety while still setting aside time to enjoy their company. After mobility issues are planned for and you’re confident about their safety, it’s a lot easier to relax and make new memories at home together.
Do your parents have any special interests? If so, can you help them pursue those interests?
Consider family time at the park and spend a joyful hour or two watching the grandchildren play, even if they have always liked playing football but can no longer run and kick the ball.
Consider presenting someone with very restricted mobility to a subscription channel where they can be sure to find a wealth of vintage films. For them, the television is an oasis of amusement. Pick a favourite film, set up some refreshments, and enjoy some quality time together while watching the films and reliving the emotions they evoke.
Go outside and explore different places together
If your parents do not yet have a mobility issue, taking your family on a day trip to a place that is meaningful to you all although maybe not something they would consider doing alone is a wonderful idea. For all of you, especially the grandchildren, this may be a beautiful way to spark off a conversation and share memories, allowing them to join in on your cherished family customs as well.
You may always choose to go out to eat, which is a fun activity that is sometimes disregarded, for a more low-key approach. Staying late for a casual lunch can be a great opportunity to start a lively conversation and hopefully some laughing as well.
